Lifestyle Discussion

If you get married tomorrow, how many kids would you love to have and raise as a family? There are some people who are not married but they are having kids, I don't understand that kind of arrangement. I will never have a kid out of wedlock. Two kids is enough for me to have and raise.

Both my spouse and I have decided not to have kids. We both wouldn't be fit to be parents as we both have mental issues, plus we prefer to have cats in our lives. We also think that our country is overpopulated, and there's plenty of kids who need to be adopted. Humans as a species aren't even close to being extinct, so we feel that we don't need to procreate.

I don't want kids because I feel I don't have the mental capacity to handle them and I would be too afraid of going into debt raising children. But heck, I'm 33 and I've only been on one date my entire life, so it's kind of hard to have kids when you don't even care too much about being in a relationship with someone.

No kids. I am still single. I am actively looking for a girl friend but this is proving rather challenging. Maybe I should be going out to the night clubs and clubbing more often.

Cory wrote: ↑Wed Sep 13, 2023 12:38 am I don't want kids because I feel I don't have the mental capacity to handle them and I would be too afraid of going into debt raising children. But heck, I'm 33 and I've only been on one date my entire life, so it's kind of hard to have kids when you don't even care too much about being in a relationship with someone.

It is challenging when you don't even have a partner. I was in the same shoes when I was single, but I recently got into a new relationship. Hopefully, if this works out, I would want to have just 3 kids, although I understand that it is pretty difficult raising kids in this age and time.

It is only two kids that I would be interested in having for myself because I know it is the number of kids that I'm going to be able to offer the kind of life I want to give them. Anything more than two kids is not going to be of any interest to me.

Heatman wrote: ↑Sun Jul 07, 2024 10:18 pm It is only two kids that I would be interested in having for myself because I know it is the number of kids that I'm going to be able to offer the kind of life I want to give them. Anything more than two kids is not going to be of any interest to me.

It is a good choice, and I don't think anyone should say that you don't have valid reasons for doing so. Having more kids is okay, but having the time to train them is another energy draining situation.

Henrywrites wrote: ↑Fri Jul 26, 2024 5:13 am

Heatman wrote: ↑Sun Jul 07, 2024 10:18 pm It is only two kids that I would be interested in having for myself because I know it is the number of kids that I'm going to be able to offer the kind of life I want to give them. Anything more than two kids is not going to be of any interest to me.

It is a good choice, and I don't think anyone should say that you don't have valid reasons for doing so. Having more kids is okay, but having the time to train them is another energy draining situation.

I have come to find out that it is those people who are struggling financially that usually end up having too many kids. I keep questioning what could be their reason for doing that when they know that financially they cannot be able to take care of those kids?

I have four kids, two of which are now adults and the other two are slowly creeping towards adulthood, one is 16, going to be 17 this December and the other is 15, going to be 16 in May 2025.

I would have liked to have at least one or two more children with my current partner but I'm not getting any younger so may not be possible, I am just happy that the kids I have now have turned out to be good people.

I think its ideal not to have more than 2 kids and we should make everything available for them to have a good life